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14. May 2012
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We live, we learn. Or should it be, we love, we learn?
A friend forwarded me a poem about love. It made me think about how we love.
Do we love our lover or do we love the person we become when we are with them? What happens when the “honeymoon” is over? When the lovers no longer take the time to make each other feel special, the way they used to do when they... Read more
5. May 2012
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There is an earthy smell in the air. The bitter bite in the wind has become soft stroking as the temperature rises. Tiny buds appear and swell to green life. The days are growing longer and my winter-restrained spirits soar to the sun.
I look up as the first swallows and swifts sweep down from the sky. Soon the air will be filled with the chirping of baby birds, competing with the bleating call... Read more
30. April 2012
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Today, 30 April, is Queen's Day in The Netherlands. This was the birthday of the late Queen mother, but has been kept in honour of her. The normally staid and sedate Dutchies go Orange-crazy. Admittedly, when they win at football, it's worse, but still, the rules are suspended on Queen's Day. One of these rules defines the day for me: on Queen's Day, you don't need a permit to sell something. So the whole... Read more Photo Albums
Dominique
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(Last activity: 20 May at 06:33) |
| Definition: | I am female |
| Real name: | Dominique Sabsay Du Toit |
| I seek: |
An Audience |
| Location: | Anywhere |
| Country: |
Netherlands |
| Membership: | Writer |
Headline and Description
| Headline: |
What is love? |
| Description: |
In the next several weeks, I want to explore this subject. Join me (at your own risk!) if you like some quirky humour...!
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| Languages: | Dutch, English |
Me and my family
| Marital status: | I'm married |
| Children: | I have two children |
| Children home: | All my children live at home |
| My parents: | We are close |
| My siblings: | We are good friends |
| Extended family: | We keep in touch now and then |
My character
| My smile: | I have a fairly easy smile |
| Tease me: | I like being teased |
| Tease you: | I will sometimes tease you |
| Shy: | I am not shy |
| Impulse: | I'm somewhat impulsive |
| Temper: | I'm easy going |
| Social: | I'm quite social |
| Friends: | It takes me a while to make new friends |
| Alone: | I need to be alone now and then |
| Jokes: | I am not good at telling jokes |
| Stories: | I am a reasonable storyteller |
My food
| My diet: | High protein, Fish (yes please), Meat (yes please), Organic (when possible), Raw food (when possible), Shellfish (yes please) |
| My food: |
I love the variety of taste, texture and colour in food. Almost anything goes, except avocado. Too icky squishy for me!
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| My drink: |
I like a glass of wine with dinner, occasionally a cocktail, but taste is more important than alcohol content. Which is why Single Malt goes down well, but I don´t touch average whisky.
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My lifestyle
| Inner clock: | I'm an early bird |
| Smoking: | I don't smoke |
| Drinking: | I'll drink socially |
| Gum: | I rarely chew gum |
| Nailbiting: | I don't bite my nails |
| My days: |
Happily full of chaos
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| My weekends: |
Working from home, what´s the difference?
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| My gym: |
Wasted on me. Playing with the girls is enough for me, thank you!
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| My books: |
I read with the indiscriminate appetite of a lawnmower - almost anything and lots of it. When I have time, which is almost never!
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| My art: |
Does sewing and photography count? Or decorating cakes?
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| My outdoors: |
Love it! Wild camping, nature, animals, etc. Just prefer a bit more heat than the lovely sunny -5 degrees outside at the moment...
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| My travels: |
Home is where the heart is. I take mine out exploring as often as possible! Comfort zone? What is that, can you eat it?
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| My leisure: |
Almost anything goes. Although, in all honesty, my preferred noisy nightlife is more likely to involve lions than disco. Don´t get me wrong, I love music and I love dancing (belly dancing), but not the noise that you get in clubs.
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My looks
| My hair: |
Brownish
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| My body: |
Roundish in the right places
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| My clothes: |
Mainly quite boring pants and sweaters in winter, nicer dresses in summer, unless I dig into my bottom drawer! Then, beware!
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| Appearance: |
Ranging from tired Mommy to very sensual, alas not always on demand.
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About sex
| Sex in my opinion: |
Is a physical need, like eating. And like eating, it can be anything from junkfood to a cordon bleu feast, and everywhere inbetween!
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Bits and pieces
| My education: | University + |
| Employment: | I am self-employed |
| Relocate: | I will consider relocation |
| My finances: | I am doing all right |
| Children: | I want to have children |
| About children: |
I love being Mommy to our two daughters. Would not say no to another one!
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| Politics: |
Nah, causes indigestion.
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| About my religion: |
Love. That´s about all of it. Just love.
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The oddball me
| Oddball Me #1: |
I don´t do nomal, am allergic to it. Does that make me an oddball, just like everybody else?
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How to contact me
| My site: | www.ergonoptix.com/ |
| Facebook: | www.facebook.com/sabsay |
| Elance: | www.elance.com/s/dsabsay/ |
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